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Still Single? What's wrong with me?
Article by Ilze Jaunberzins
Our seven brains can create heaven or hell for us, depending whether we have conscious awareness of what they do and how we can constructively use them for our benefit. One of these brains that can cause havoc for us is the emotional brain. Buried deep within the cerebral cortex brain mass tissue, this brain may be holding you back in the attracting your ideal partner.
Here is a quick summary of why.
The emotional brain is the brain of protection and survival.
Switched on 24 hrs it is ever vigilant to alert you of any danger, and, under threat will trigger your whole body to “ save “ itself by fight/flight or freeze ( hide ) behaviours. This brain is the brain of conditioned behaviours – often known as emotional baggage. When you were only 28 days in formation in your mother’s womb, your emotional brain was being developed. Everything you heard and experienced from that day on until about 7 years of age “programmed “ your brain about beliefs about yourself, relationships and the world.
THIS FACT IS OF ENORMOUS SIGNIFICANCE to you and your future.
You have unconsciously learnt what to think about yourself (self esteem and self value) .If your environment ( parents, siblings, extended family, school, TV, religious teachings ) taught you that you weren’t good enough, not clever enough , not as attractive as you could be, then your adult self will play out this script.
How can you attract your ideal partner if you unconsciously resist this because you don’t deserve one?
What can you do to erase those false unhelpful tapes? There are several methods that you can help you. These methods include psychotherapy, hypnotherapy and Neurolinguistic programming.
The technique I use, recommend and witness outstanding results with is Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT ). Known as the “tapping technique “because you physically tap with 2 fingers on various parts of your face, fingers, chest. The results are outstanding. The technique is safe, fast and very effective. You are welcome to enquire when our next workshop is on
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I have personally worked with 200 clients getting remarkable results
Let me share one story with you how liberating EFT can be. A client was attracting wonderful partners into her life but the relationships were not lasting. We explored her family of origin patterns of relationships and she shared that her parents finally separated after cycles of bitter fighting followed by loving reconciliations and forgivenesses. What she had “learnt” was that loving relationships don’t last and she had programmed that into her emotional brain. Can you imagine the freedom she experienced when we tapped on that pattern and released it? She went on to create a new belief and quickly attracted a loving sustainable relationship.
Combining EFT plus the “list” of your ideal partner incorporating your core value plus your vision board plus affirmative language means you have the powerful success formula to free yourself to create your new life and attract the partner of your dreams.
My clients who apply all these principles testify to this formula. You too can get these results. With coaching, support and the HeartLogic techniques, you are guaranteed to succeed.
Ready for a new you? Contact me now for a complementary session to get you started
Still hesitant? Know that it is this powerful emotional brain of yours that is wanting to keep you ‘safe’.
Get up, break free and pick up that phone now!
I wish you all the very best in creating your new life – it can be an awesome and fabulous one.
You will surprise yourself with what you can achieve.
Principal Coach Emotional Freedom Technique practitioner
HeartLogic science based life and leadership coaching
Ilze has coached people from diverse backgrounds and in a variety of industries and professions to express their true power and purpose. She has supported many people to achieve what they wanted, even going beyond their dreams. These successes have included, for those who were looking, wonderful life partners!
Ilze is passionate about sharing with you what to do to fully use your seven brains – yes you have seven of them!
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